My girlfriend and I have been going through quite a rough patch. Long story short we only dated a short amount of time before (due to other obligations) we were separate for a few months.
Now that we are back together we have been constantly fighting. We recently made a big breakthrough in dealing with our issues with a number of talks and compromises yet I still feel uncomfortable with physical affection (hand holding, kissing, hugging, sex est.)
Because our relationship is still rocky in my opinion it doesn;t feel right on my end to express affection in the fashion I listed. At least not until more time passes to prove to me that our talks and compromises have really stuck and the relationship becomes stable again.
As far as I'm concerned sex should be limited if not cut out completely and everything else should be at least limited until more time has passed.
It honestly makes me uncomfortable when she does try to show physical affection at this point but is my way of thinking unreasonable?
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yes you are being reasonable. She might just be horny - it might not be a love issue for her that she wants to sleep with you.1