When is first started my job last year this cute little married (yes) girl would stare at me and flip her hair around until I looked at her. I also noticed she was showing up in random places I would be all the time. She was shy so she wouldn't really talk. I saw her in the halls all the time, and she's just stare at me. It she'd come back to my office and just stand in my door way ask me a random question and just linger. One day I stopped her in the hall and her face turned deep red and she could barely talk she was so nervous, stuttering while she talked. Shortly after this is was following me in the hall trying to get me to notice her. We started this routine of walking to the break room basically every morning and back to our desks talking. I wondered it anyone noticed. So we'd do this 3-4 times a week then she'd disappear on me for a few days which was annoying, then I'd ignore she'd run back and repeat. I had no clue what she was all about so id ignore her when she did this, she'd come running back. This happened for like 4 months. I talked about other girls being hot around her. We were doing this back and forth ignoring then back agai etc. I noticed on a few occasions she flirted with my buddy, sometimes in front of me, sometimes she watched me while she did it. I started ignoring her more over time. At one point last winter I ignored her for almost two months and was cold to her. I didn't know what she wanted and was confused. I was also skipping some of out group lunches bc I didn't want I be made jealous. My buddy tells me one day that she has been following him out to the parking lot and walking and talking with him everyday, like her and i used to. So I started talking to her again a bunch and they stopped their routine which was weird, he even told me they stopped. So her and I were good again. He left and I backed off her again. She has been skipping all he lunches since I started ignoring basically, except when I was out of town. What is all this?
Most Helpful Girl
She is a wack job and is playing games. She probably enjoys the attention and the thrill of it all, since maybe her marriage has gotten stale. Put it this way- how would you feel if your wife was doing this with a guy at work? I'm sorry but you need to stay away. She's looking to have her ego stroked and create drama.0