I'm really confused about a friend of mine, recently when we hang out we will end up sleeping in the same bed, holding hands, flirting but never kissing. This is usually while we are slightly under the influence. When we are sober there's small flirting but nothing major again.. Some of the things he does and says when we drink/are sober makes think he likes me. But I don't want to jump to conclusions and make the friendship awkward. We have the same friends so it would be bad if we couldn't be friends..
Are we just friends or more? How can I ask him without ruining the friendship?
What Guys Said 2
Personally, I think you should go for it. Yes, I suppose there is a chance you could have misread his signs, and potentially risk losing out on a friend, but there's something else to consider here as well. If you decide to stay "just friends," but one of you would like to pursue this further, eventually you two either will end up being a couple, or you'll end up parting ways. That's pretty much how it works.
If it turns out he's cool with the "just friends" arrangement here, at least in the short term, you two can maintain this. Maybe you'll find you prefer this as well, and your friendship can hold. Maybe you'll still want more, and he'll decide he wants more, too. This can still work as well.0
Ask him politely " hey do you have feelings for me more than friends".0
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