I am targeting guys in their mid thirties and older here - how do you feel about dating and asking girls out, the older you get? Do you find that you are asking yourself "Am I too old for her?", unsure of exactly where you stand in the scheme of things? Do you feel the competition of younger guys more strongly? It's already nerve racking to ask out a girl when you are young, do you find it doubly as difficult as you age?
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I think it depends on whom you are courting. Generally i would say dating is easier when one is younger because every one wants to experiment and has less baggage. Besides... its like an initiation thing.
I am 37 .. couple of girls were 23 years old thought i was out of my mind to ask them out. I don't look old really. Also it happened for some girls who were 26 .
I no longer worry about what they might say. I don't take their logic into consideration. I just ask, if it is yes then fine. if no then fine. I am not interested to know she felt insulted or creeped or whatever. I treat her with respect, and i am never nut a gentleman. She should have an emotional maturity to handle the request with respect as well.
On the other hand, there are women over 30 who could have too high standards. . Its a problem with women trying to be as equal to men and in the same time trying to find a husband better than they are financially , socially etc. There are only few men who has it all.
But why are you asking? Do you want a certain man to ask you out?0