I know most guys watch p*rn, and I've watched it myself, but I don't think a guy should watch p*rn when he's in a relationship with me.. Most girls would tolerate that, but not me. I just feel like I have a lot of options so I don't need to compromise on things that I'm not comfortable with. I've been dating a guy for four months, we're moving in together, and I dont know if he watches p*rn or not, but if he does, then it's a dealbreaker for me, and I would leave.. I'm not going to forbid him from watching it, he can do whatever he wants, but he needs to knowt that I won't accept it.. So how and when should I tell him this? (before we move in, obviously)
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The sooner you tell him its a deal breaker the better. However keep in mind by doing so you will pave way for him to lie, cheat, and be deceitful.
I personally don't watch p*rn because it skews our image of sex and relationships. The thing is though by denying a person of their fantasies an basic instincts for sex you set yourself up for failure.
Instead you should talk with him openly and let him know if he has the urge to watch P*rnography that he should instead talk to you about how he feels. You'll need to be open to this and exploring sexuality though1