I've been dating a guy for 2 weeks, 4 dates so far (3 of which were sleepovers). We have been in contact every day through texts and phone calls. I told him I wanted to wait to sleep with him - he still tries during sleepovers, but is willing to wait.
Everything seems to be going well, he initiates everything and makes plans with me a week in advance etc. (next week we have plans for Tues, Wed, and Sat). He also doesn't want me to date others. All good signs.
However - since the start, he's been secretive about his phone. He slept over at my place yesterday and his phone was blowing up with messages, which he answered (obviously turning the phone away from me or taking it with him to the bathroom). Also, his phone rang at 1.30 AM, he didn't pick up and I said "I thought you said you weren't sleeping around", half jokingly (because we talked about that before). So he, after some silence, said "they want a ride home". Right...
I'm just worried that if we actually do get serious, he will always be looking for attention from other girls. Should I be skeptical or is this normal? Is he likely to stop if we get serious? What to do...
I should maybe add that I've also messaged guy friends while together with him, but I'm open about it and tell him what I'm writing, mostly... and not nearly as often as him.
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That isn't normal, and its downright rude. I'd be cautious.1