So this guy i been talking to for a while. We talked on a chat for a bit then he asked for my number cool he explains to me how he has no phone cause he it fell off when he was surfing that's fine he's borrowing. I never had a reason not to believe him. Then we start to talk on fb he really does not hide anything. He's been talking about going to someplace thats very close to me at first he hinted if i would like to go. He has been though a lot lately i been trying to be understanding his grandmother died and he never spoke to me i was worried about him. He explains takes forever to reply says he's busy with his son ok that's fine , now he went on to say he would explain everything, told him to call if he could (he never did ) He says he cares about me etc. He posted a pic in the place near me , never said anything and he has not met up with me cause he has no car wtf? Now i feel upset and don't know what to tell him. Seems he never has time for me. Can't he just say he is busy? what to do? Should i just ignore him?
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He doesn't own a car or it broke down and is in the shop so he can't see you?
Hasn't made time to see you? Happens a lot in relationships.
Here is what you can do! Tell him you're missing him lately, and you want to see him. Let him know that you are aware that things are kind of crazy with no phone and no car (bill troubles?) - but you would like it if he could make time in his schedule to give you a visit!
If he sees you as a girlfriend I am sure he will try to schedule you something and accommodate. And if he doesn't at some point, then you know all that you need to for what to do next.
Now I know you might want his "feeling" to be greater, to desire you, and not have to be told to come visit. But this is really not a sustainable concept in any relationship that is long term.0
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