We have been together a year and a half and suddenly he's not calling me or texting me as much as he used to. This has been happening for the last month... I tell him about it by Saying that he doesn't show as much affection than he did before... and all he says is that he's busy.. or doesn't confront the situation AT ALL and just says" I love you". Which is so Annoying!!! I also know he lies to me about his free time... he's VERY predictable.. and I don't mind him hanging out.. I just don't know if HE knows that. Ughh I'd hate to be thought of as a clingy Girlfriend. ..
But at the same time I know he's introverted, and talking things ouT is not something he's good at.
Soo I don't know if when he says he loves me, he's really trying to express he doesn't want to lose me. I Know he's not cheating though. ..
SO WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK ABOUT THE SITUATION? ? IS THERE A WAY THIS CAN BE FIXED OR IS MY RELATIONSHIP CRUMBLING? DOES HE WANT OUT? ?
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Hey there! This sounds how exactly how my last relationship went but reverse the roles. Pretty much don't pressure anything on him, do not annoy him by blowing up his phone etc. if he wants to play this distant less affectionate game. Do the exact same to him, maybe he kinda feels smothered right now and wants some breathing room. Give him some space to breath a little bit then act accordingly. I hate when one person in the relationship decides to pull this card. I know how you feeling and your loosing your mind right now. Just let him know what he means to you and give a little bit of space and then let him come to you. Worst case scenario is that he wants to take a break. If he does this do not wait for anything. Pretty much pack your bags and leave Becuase something else is going on with him. I hope this helped :)
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