Okay so I'm turning 21 and it's a big deal. So I made a list of 21 things I wanna do on my birthday that are crazy and some of them are inappropriate and involve other men. We're not exclusive but were dating and I think he really likes me. But I'm still technically single so I wanna let loose and go crazy for my birthday, but I don't know if that's wrong or not. Should I just do it and not tell him since it's gonna be with a stranger anyways and not mean anything? Or should I tell him! What should I do?
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I don't think you should make this about your birthday, and your 21st birthday wishes (that's not the root of your motivations!). This is about you, and what you want in your life. If you have wants and needs like this, maybe it's clear that you simply aren't ready for a committed relationship. You want to have fun and date around, or you'd already be serious about this guy right?
It seems like you need to have a talk with this guy to make it clear that you're young and want to go out and have fun with other people--take things slow and keep it casual. If he's not okay with that, end it and don't waste his time. It's not fair to him or yourself to string him along if you really want to go out and live life :P0
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