So me and this guy have been going out almost every day. Were soon going to be long distance about 2 hours when he leaves for college. Yesterday we had the define the talk. He thought we were already dating like bf and gf. I didn't know we were officially, I want to be bf and gf. However, he never officially asked me. He said he has never asked a girl that. Then when I mention are we putting it on Facebook. He like laughs and says no. He doesn't want to. So I am suppose to date him long distance and he doesn't have one picture of me, no relationship status nothing about me? Is he just wanting to play the field. Why do guys not want to put it on Facebook? I mean a lot of guys message me, and comment on my stuff, wouldn't u wanna say that I am all yours that I am taken? I don't get it.
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I believe, as wise as I am, if he is First starting Slow with you, and it's gotten to the part Now where you are Both Exclusive, Yet Nothing has been mentioned as of Yet----Officially. He wants you to be his girl Only, but my guess, he is Not ready for Any heavy commitment, and also isn't ready to Explain you both to the whole wide world and that includes----Facebook.
No, you don't have to 'suppose to date him long distance' if it's not for you. A lot can happen with him going to college, and of course with nothing Official, he could end up 'playing the field' later on. Life is a gamble.
However, if he truly cares about you, and for now you are His, just go with his slow flow for what it is.
It's your choice, your call.
As far as 'pictures of me,' there's no harm in taking a few of the both of you for the future and just to have. When you have been together longer, you will eventually know, if you decide to stick it out, just What your 'relationship status' ends up to be.
Good luck. xx0