I want a nice gentlemen. Not some random guy asking me for my number.
That's so annoying.
How do they even know if I'm their type, or if they're mine?
I'm a princess! I'm not going to let any guy break me. I cannot stand insecure men who try to control you. Stay tf away from me with that bs. I swear.
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It's fine to have high standards. To be honest I find it suspicious and a bit worrying when a man asks for my phone number before attempting to have a conversation with me. However I don't view them as insecure or a bad person, I'm just wary about giving away personal information to someone I haven't even spoken to yet.
I'm assuming you're calling some of the guys you've gotten to know through these methods "insecure" and not guys overall who ask for your number "insecure", because if it's the latter then I'd say that it's not fair to jump to a conclusion when you don't know them, similarly to how none of us know you and people are making assumptions as to what kind of person you are (self entitled, high horse, bitter, etc.) based on what you've chosen to share with us.
All in all try not to label people that you only know from a single sentence. It's fine to be cautious and it's up to you whether or not you exchange numbers, but don't take your frustration out on these guys. Some may not be the type of person you want to associate yourself with, but by not giving any of them a chance (the ones that you may feel safer with) you're hindering yourself and them by ruining what could have been a good opportunity for you both.0
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