This just happened to me approximately one month ago, with the same exact reaction from her parents: that we can't date. She's 16, I'm 17, we had been dating for a year. Honestly the only thing to do is support your girlfriend and KEEP COMMUNICATING WITH HER! Her parents will calm down!!! But it will take time. You must be patient if you don't want to lose her. Don't let it get in the way of you two and don't let it cause you to fight! That is what happened with my girlfriend and I and a month later our relationship is still struggling.
To reiterate: Try and stay calm. The only thing you can do is wait it out.
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This is why it is so important to be in good with the parents! If you are young and sneak around and avoid her parents they will naturally hate you. All you can do is be a stand up man, go her house and ask to speak with her parents. Tell them you love their daughter and you would never do anything to hurt her. Tell them you are sorry for sneaking behind their back and that wasn't your intention. Tell them you where responsible and used birth control, (I hope you did!).
I've never had this problem... My mom had to have known me and my boyfriend were having sex but never said anything about it, she only ever told me to not get pregnant. Same thing from his parents that they would kill him if he got me pregnant... We dated for three and a half years - started dating when I was 14...
I would just wait it out - keep in contact with your girlfriend as best as you can keep talking to her and wait our the storm from her mother. I wouldn't necessarily sneak around behind her mom's back though unless she really won't let you to see each other otherwise.
The most you can do is try and speak with her mother in a very mature way, explain to her how much she means to you. Come to the door with flowers/ chocolates. Woo her mom into allowing you to see her again. Prove to her that your the perfect gentleman, something that mom and dad approve of. Win over the parents = win the girl! GOOD LUCK
I have a question before I can say anything. How old are both of you? (I give great advice or so I've been told and I don't judge)...
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Sneaking around the parent is never a good thing to do when dating. I'm not sure what to tell you, try to be mature about it, try to talk to her mother. You need to explain how much she means to you, how much you love her. Good Luck
Nothing you can do, really. They are in control of her access to you.
Is your girl underage? If not, you're adults, do what you want.
Approach her mother maturely and chat with her.
Talk to her parents
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