i am a thin girl with a small breasts but a nice butt my measurements are 30-27-37 and i have a very cute face.. am a vert sociale girl i have a lot of friends and a very good relation with people.. my prob is I can't find a perfect bf for me.. i was engaged to a man who said that he loves me but he was so controller and so violent so I left him and moved on cause I knew that I deserve better after about 3 months I had a crush on my neighbor and he flirts on me a lot I start to fall for him until I discovered that he has a gf when I faced him he told me that he finds me so beautiful and very perfect girl but that's it.. in this moment another guy proposed on me and we didn't know each other well but I felt that he is both the right one so I didn't want to hurt him or waste my time I refused after a while I found my old crush from high school he became a very mature guy but after just a week from chatting on fb he admits to me that he want us to be a friend with benefits so we meet just for the sex.. i felt like am very cheap and he is very jerk so I told him that am not that type and we stopped talking.. now I feel so bad not because of them but because of me I feel so dumb because I always fall for the wrong person all my friends says that am beautiful s. mart funny and a successful girl and I know that am not ego but I know that I deserve to have my chance with the right one.. now I still had the crush on my neighbor and the other guys who proposed on me still wants me and putting a lit of pressure on me to make me love him back.. i start to lose control and I start to lose my confidence because of my small breast because I don't have another physically reason.. am not a cheap girl who run into men but am so sensitive and clear.. and I have the hole package to be a good gf so guys what do you think why I am still single
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You're right, a friends with benefits situation is cheap, and shallow. People are somehow amazed when they get "Feelings" for their mate, well, sex is the most intimate thing two people can do.
My advice to you, is not to "Fall" at all. You must learn to put a harness around your heart. Your heart will deceive you. (As you have already found out.)
Instead, take some time off, and alone, and do some inrospecting. I will tell you, to learn to listen to trust your instincts. We all them your "Gut feelings". Like, something tells you not to walk by a dark alley. There's a reason for it. You must listen.
Your instincts were telling you everything you needed to know about these guys the moment you began talking to them. You just chose to believe your heart, which says "I am in love!". But your heart can be wrong. Very wrong. And it will lead you into disaster.
Move on, and mature. Grow. Practice self discipline and self control. And most of all, learn to trust your instincts.
When I was locked inside of pens with 240LB wolves (109kg) I learned real fast to trust my instincts. Now I trust them inside, and out of, pens with wolves in them.1