Say someone you REALLY liked, hurt you by refusing dates yet flirted a lot. Basically made you feel as though you had a shot with them for a long time then didn't give you a chance. Was hot/cold and would only chat when it was convenient for them
You stop talking, you get a new partner but you can't fully get over the original interest, out of the blue they message uou via a social metworking site your friends on. They ask how you are, you reply. Then they kinda demand/ask you to make them laugh, they need new funny mates.
Do you ignore it even if you still like them? Do you assume its more games/attention seeking? Do you think they just want more attention from you but nothing more cos they rejected you for a year?
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Ignore for sure! I mean they never wanted you so why spend any more minute wasting your time on them. Leading anyone is freaking disgusting and shows a person's character for what it is. I get that when feelings are involved it's tempting but what is there to gain ultimately? The only thing it will do is increase your feelings and get your hopes up again and then you are back at square 1. This guy definitely seems to just want fun. I mean if he was truly sorry for what he did and regretted rejecting you he'd surely apologize sincerely and make things right... not ask you to be a "funny mate". If he is serious he'll try to win you over again which he doesn't exactly seem to busy doing... he could have called you or showed up at your door. But he just sent a measly message on social media. If that's all it takes to win your heart back then it's pretty sad! That's how I see it.1
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