Is it wrong to hook up with a guy the first time you hang out together? If so, how long should you wait?
guys do you consider girls slutty if they hook up with you during the first hangout?
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What Guys Said 4
No, I don't consider it slutty or wrong. If you both want to have sex, why not? Just use your judgment. If you're looking for a relationship and you're having sex with a guy you just met at a bar, you're going to be disappointed. If you're just looking for sex, however, you have the right guy! If the guy you're about to have sex with is interested in a relationship as well, sex on the first date won't stop that from happening. The widely-mentioned stereotype of a guy leaving a girl shocked and dismayed after he screws her is hardly as widespread as people seem to think. I'd say most of that happens on what is obviously a one-night-stand. Or High School/College. You can see them coming from a long way off.
'Wrong' is a point of view, don't let anyone else define it for you! ;) If you want to have sex with a guy, go for it. You don't have to wait a set period of time to avoid being seen a certain way..
What Girls Said 1
You should read Steve Harvey's book, "Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man" -- it's a VERRRRY insightful about men and dating and relationships, etc! Have a little respect for yourself (and he would respect you too, if he's genuinely interested)-- when you hand it over on the first date, it's meaningless really, sex should be so much more than just a first date hook up... for you and him!