So I met this guy online and we started making plans to see each other.( an online service called POF) One day I was borred typed in his name and found his Facebook right away just to find out he has been in a relationship for over a year and still is. This girl looks adorable and it would be heartless just to ignore the issue and I do want to tell her... but how? I don't know her I can't confront him cause he will deny it plus he'll just continue his game. Any advice?
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I honestly think you shouldn't tell her, it never helps. Rather just leave it alone and stay away from the both of them if you don't like it, or ask him about it and see what he says. Also, you never really know someone's relationship situation, as what you see on Facebook often is nothing like what's happening in real life - e. g. they may be heading towards splitting up anyway.
I had a gf who harshly judged a friend of mine for what she thought of as "cheating", when the reality was they were already in late-stages of divorce, the girl he was "cheating" with, they are now happily married with children, and he's still friends with his ex-wife who has also re-married and is more happy now. You don't know anything about their situation and I think you're more likely to cause harm than help by saying sometihng, I think it's better just to leave it.0