I'm on dating websites like match. com and pof. com and in two months I was only able to get one date. I'm starting to feel really unattractive and I'm really not. I always try to be witty and funny with my messages and never anything weird.
Here's what I don't understand: I could be chatting to a girl over several days and everything is going fine and she is letting me know she likes me. Then after a few days I say "hey we should hang out some time" and bam just like that all conversation stops and I never hear back from them. One girl outright said she doesn't date strangers... I'm wondering why she's on a dating website where everyone is a stranger.
Can someone explain this to me? I really thought dating sites were about dating...
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The guys I met on match didn't report that they were struggling like guys on here say. They said they went on dates, but a lot of people weren't what they were looking for (same as real life).
I think being 25-30, average looking, not too overweight and a white collar professional seems to be the sweet spot there, though. You may be too young.
POF, I've heard, it crazyville, however.
I think, at your age, offline is better. People are hanging out all the time. The reason online is better at 25+ is because people are busier and you have more normal folks on there.0