I am of the latter. However I think most guys persist hard when wooing a girl from my observation, or at least from those around me. Well, I am not sure about you, but if you persist hard in wooing a girl, it just seems that you are putting presure on her to date you, then how is the love bona fide?
The love is kind of "forced" because the girl is annoyed by one's persistence so she just agree to date the guy.
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If there isn't a natural connection, I don't waste my time.1