There's this guy that I really like, he's super sweet, very outgoing and super friendly. But everyone I know is also in love with him, we hung out a couple days ago and it was great because he told me that i had surprised him with our conversations, that I could talk about in depth things like politics, religion etc and not just the everyday stuff. He took me to get ice cream out of blue and everything after we hung out and watched a movie. We talked non-stop for about four hours or so. He's really cute, tall with dark brown hair and brown eyes and just such a great positive energy... and I'm, kind of short, a little pudgy with brown hair and glasses. I'm not usually the type of girl to hang out with him if you know what I mean. How can i make it so I at least get a chance? He wants to hang out again which surprised me, but he also "warned" me and told me that he didn't want me to get hurt. He's one of my friends also though but.. any advice?
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If he's giving you the heads up and warning you about getting hurt, he's not planning on anything serious. If you try to go for it, you'll miss, crash, and get bruised up pretty bad. He's probably a guy out there for having fun, no attachments, just trying to have a good time. Guys like that can be real kind, awesome to hang out, and considerate. Which can be a real heart trapper, just don't let it happen.
Enjoy the friendship, enjoy the fun, don't hope for anything more. If it happens, it'll happen on it's OWN, nothing you instigate. There's billions out there, dove, don't settle for the first fish to cross your line of sight.0