I've been using online dating for a while and can't find any woman that will go on a date with me. None at all.
I've messaged around 100 of them, about 20 of them replied. Of those 20, 10 stopped messaging me after 1-3 messages.
The other 10 I spoke to for a while, then asked them to give me their number so we could arrange to meet up. 5 either stopped replying or declined. The other 5 said yes and gave me their numbers. Sounds great right?
Except they have no intention of meeting me. All of them claim to be busy on every day I suggest.
Is it all just about attention and ego boosting? I really don't see why anyone looking for a date would behave this way.
ALSO.. Before you all start saying its because of me and that I'm ugly/weird/boring/whatever, even if you are right, why do they pretend to want to meet up? Why not just ignore my messages or reject me like the other girls who think I'm ugly/weird/boring/whatever?
Even though I am ugly ( s1285.photobucket.com/.../ASOIAF?sort=3&page=1 ) and pretty much the opposite of what women like in behaviour, I don't see why its so hard to find someone, I'm not exactly aiming high, most of the women I message are overweight/ugly themselves.
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Well you're not ugly maybe you're asking women to meet up too quickly? A lot of women want to get to know someone and match personalities first, texting is another way to chat and get to know you so they might have given you their numbers thinking the date thing was just a line so you could contact them more or they didn't think you meant you wanted to arrange a date right away but maybe in the future. Ask them to pick a day they're comfortable with at a public location and meet them there don't ask to pick her up or drive her home, it only takes one creep to k ow where you live that won't stop harassing you (not saying you would but how would she know? It'd make her feel uneasy and more likely to cancel the date)0
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