Hi. So I've dating this guy who paid on our first date. He chose the place and all that, and it costed him 90 $. And he was okay about it but I don't like it when people pay for me.
Now we're gonna go on a second date and this time I told him that I was gonna pay, and he won't let me. What do I do because I feel a bit bad about it? He says he's a bit old-schooled at that point.
Should I feel bad about it? I don't wanna come off as not being polite.
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Think about the instinct that boy birds have which compels them to offer up worms to the girl birds. Men have the same kind of instinct inside them. They want to take on the role of provider and protector, not because society tells them to, but because they feel compelled by their own nature to do so. They enjoy following their instinct and they feel frustrated when women will not let them, much like a boy bird feels frustrated when the girl bird will not accept his worm.
Let him follow his instinct. Let him pay for the meal. Just enjoy yourself.0