There is a guy I'm friends with at work. He's smart, funny, sensitive, and so attractive. From the first time I talked to him I thought he was awesome, we were fast friends. Our friendship has grown over the months. Sometimes we have lunch together just chatting about stuff. It's weird I'll be singing a song and he'll start singing with me. We complete the other's sentences and are always Cracking each other up. We talk about really personal things that are going on in our lives. And I just feel naturally connected to him, it's like so easy. There are times where he looks at me so lovingly and it makes me sad. And I know he's sad too in a way because even though we've never talked about it I know he is thinking the same as me. That we will never be together.
He has a girlfriend and a baby girl who he loves to death. We were out on break one day a few months ago and he said "I love my girl, she gave me a beautiful daughter, but we are so Different and have nothing in common, like at all. I only knew her for 2 months before I got her pregnant. I know we wouldn't be together otherwise. Sometimes I wish I were single again, but I don't want to miss anything in my daughter's life. Should I have waited to meet someone more compatible?" so I said "Idk but you love being a father so try not to have regrets." even though I wanted to say "yes you should have waited for me." He kinda shrugged, looked at me and said "I guess you're right."
It really sucks to have your soulmate right in front of you every day but you can't even touch him or Tell him how you feel because it would be so wrong to tempt him. Sometimes I just avoid him but inevitably we Run into eachother and start talking again since we work in the same building.
So you ever been in a situation where you met someone perfect for you but the time is just wrong?
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If you guys are meant to be together, it will happen at some point. This scenario has happened before, more notably with Paul Newman and Tom Hanks.
Unfortunately, things are complicated because he didn't wait.
To answer your question, yes. Met a guy I clicked with but circumstances were wrong. C'est la vie. If it's meant to happen it will.1