like every other college guy i have girls that flirt with them and are touchy and as far as I know like me. I've been told by their friends in the dorms. But their is one girl I was literally obsessed with and she flirted lightly but was shy and I ended up chasing her for my whole first year of college and she ended up shooting me down 3 times. Yes I let the same girl shoot me down 3 times lol. The problem is I'm still obsessed with her even though I haven't seen her all summer. She has a bf and she is still the only girl I want.
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Okay, if your obsessed with her, and you know she is the one than go for it. But, she probably has shot you down 3 times already because your acting desperate and needy, no girl is attracted to that. You have to act normal and like you don't car in the OUTSIDE. I know exactly what you mean because I have been in the same boat as you. There was a guy that was so obsessed with me that every single he left romantic notes in my locker, bought me flowers 3 times a week, and has asked my to be his girlfriend and only his. I kept rejecting him, and he didn't stop until one day he noticed that I'm not attracted to guys who act needy and stuff. I have to admit I did have feelings for him also, he was the popular jock and hopeless romantic in college. Still he is obsessed with me and sends little sex texts and calls me almost 6 times or more a day. Anywho, what I'm trying to say is that no girl likes guy's who act needy and desperate. You have to act like you don' care for her anymore, even though you do. Flirt with other girl's in front of her, and ignore her, act like she does not exist, it has worked!!! Always Remember, NO GIRL LIKES NEEDY AND DESPERATE GUYS!!!0
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