So I always see people argue about who has it harder in the dating world, girls or guys. I was thinking and I believe hot girls have it much easier than hot guys, but ugly guys also have it easier than ugly girls. I rather explain this through discussion here, rather than explaining why I believe this right here (especially because I GTG in a few minutes and it might take me a while to explain). Do you agree with this theory? Why or why not?
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Its scientifically proven that attractive peoples life's are slightly easier, whether male or female. Good looking people are more likely to get hired, to be liked, get free things, get help when stranded etc
So, attractive Men and women will have it easier in the dating world. Im not too sure women have it easier than men in dating.. but they probably have a slight advantage over attractive men. There are too many factors to consider, a few being: confidence level, celebrity status, height, weight, personality etc
For the people with a face only a mother can love, life can be hard, especially in the dating world. More likely than none these people need to over achieve to get noticed. They need to be really funny, higher education helps, being a celebrity helps, having a great personality etc.
Since society puts a lot of pressure on women to look good, I think in dating, an unattractive woman will have a harder time than an unattractive male. I also think there are slightly more men that want an attractive person to date, where as women will date an uglier guy if he has other things going for himself because in her eyes that makes him attractive though most other women would think he is ugly.
For example, a girl goes on a date with a guy, finds him unattractive. She goes home and doesn't want to see him again. Her friend says hey give him another shot, so she does. She sees him again, they talk, she gets to know more about him... maybe he kisses her and she is hooked. She now has changed her mind because his personality and other endearing qualities have emerged because she gave him a chance. She also felt a connection when they kissed.
On the flip side from the time a guy meets a girl he knows if he is into her or not. If he isn't attracted to her there is no way he will date her. He might sleep with her but won't dater her... even if she has an awesome personality. Of course there are always exceptions.6
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