We don't contact each other often. Sometimes my attempts to initiate conversation fall flat. But other times the conversation just takes off like a rocket and doesn't stop.
Sometimes she's not free to go out, and says that another time would be better. I wait until the very last minute when she finally gets back and asks if tomorrow is fine, or when I get too anxious and asks her for a definite day so that i can properly plan.
There was once, I said I'm a bit confused and don't know what to feel (about the fact that we're going out in general), she said she didn't know what we are doing either.
What I wanted to know is if she's interested in something more. Her response keeps varying from being lukewarm to being really excited and interested. We're not yet dating, and I'm not ready to commit if she's not. We're definitely more than just friends, but yet there's this ambiguous gap between us and it's difficult for us to discuss where we stand without getting all meta and vague and weird.
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I'm in this exact situation with a guy, and have been before.
It's because it's going nowhere. Don't know what it is, like you can like each other and stuff but for some reason it just never goes forward and then you both just move on or something. Sometimes, like a few months after or even like a year, the people that happened with still sometimes randomly call me to try this whole thing again, and again we like each other, but nothing happens.
Any talking we tried to do to discuss it was just really weird to.
One guy, it did move forward with in the end, but it took forever to happen, and some really weird conversations, but it did end up being a long term relationship.
I dunno, I think it's almost like you both like each other but both friend zone each other at the same time. Just weird.1
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