Since I started dating after my divorce I have had equal luck with Tinder and POF. com (2 on Match but Match sucks).
unless you are talking 20lbs or more no guy will notice and most won't really care.
if it is a lot of weight then of course you will take a person by surprise. it is best to let the person know they were old pics. but any tiny amount... under 20... who cares.
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just go on the date. i doubt he'll be a dick and just bail once he sees you. but for the future choose the "honest pictures". my friend went on a date with a girl from Tinder like 2 months ago and she looked good in the photos, angle shots of course, but he said she was chubs IRL so he only looked at her as a fuck buddy and they hooked up twice and she left:P that's it.
I think you're just paranoid for the date. When you meet him just be sure to be wearing something you're confident in! Guys like confidence.
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Only person that is going to notice 4-5 pounds is you. Don't worry about it... enjoy yourself on the date.
On a semi-different note, what has been your take with Tinder so far? Good/bad experience etc Depends what he's into. If it were me, and you were a bit chubbier than expected, I'd be cheering.
tell him ur fat. maybe he says it's no problem. did he mention hating fat girls before?
You should start to work out or starve yourself then
I don't trust online dating... I wouldn't do it if I were you
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