I just met this guy that I'm talking to and he seems really cool so far. I found out that he goes to the same university as one of my other guy friends. I was going to ask my guy friend if he knew anything about him and if he was a decent guy but I don't know if that's wrong or not? Also I worry about the possibility of my friend saying something to him if he and the guy are friends.
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This "stalking" crap is out of hand. Stalking someone is following them around town, parking across the street from their house and watching them, calling and hanging up etc. Asking about someone is not stalking. Yesterday, I asked a former co-worker about another former co-worker that had cancer. Was I stalking him? I think not. If I was following him around and spying on him, that is stalking. For some reason, it has became the "in thing" to call someone a stalker just as calling another person "desperate" is the cool thing to do right now. Google the word stalking and see what the definition is. You will find it is not asking about someone.0