we ugly guys are human and we exist too. Every girl even the not attractive girls only want super model looking guys
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Because they just don't want us brother.2
Like 1% of the male population is of model standard. Obviously more than 1% of the male population is or has been in some kind of relationship. Your logic is flawed. So, there are plenty of gals out there who actually DON'T want a guy that looks like a model, and can easily be with someone average or even below average.
Also, nobody owes you a date. Nobody should go out with you just because they feel like they HAVE to. Nobody should pity date you or any guy that they're not attracted to (both physically and emotionally). Deal with it.
For a relationship, every girl wants a sexy guy and vice versa. It is not a mystery, however, there are "ugly" guys who are in relationships. How did that happen? Well, most likely the guy had a bangin personality and the girl loved that in him and thus a friendship was born. After friendship, a true loving relationship blossoms. Personality plays a key role in who I am talking to and what I like about someone. I was just saying yesterday how I can be friends with anyone regardless of their looks, but when they show a one dimensional, closed minded, entitled, superficial personality, I shut down. Yes, looks are amazing, but I would rather talk to a down to earth Quasimoto than an uppity super model dude that feels people who don't dress or look like him aren't worth his time. We might not want you at first glance, but you can make us want you with a nice conversation and personality. Don't be boring. Don't assume the worst of your opposite gender. Don't be an entitled asshole. It would make a girl melt from hearing your voice if you charm her enough no matter how "ugly" you may be. Oh... and ditch the immature girls that only care about looks. They aren't worth it.
Not true. Just like it's not true that ALL guys only want supermodel girlfriends. Being physically attracted to your partner is important, but it doesn't mean they have to be the hottest person on the planet. Attractiveness is subjective.
I don't get why people have this "I'm gonna die alone attitude." Yes, it sucks not having anyone interested in you, I get that. It's important to know that that's not everything. Do things you love, enjoy life. A happy person that doesn't get caught up in self pity has a way better chance of getting a girl. Girls don't just go for model looking guys. They go for confidence or someone who isn't begging for a relationship. It doesn't mean you need to be confident with ladies, it just means you need to be confident in something you do and that will affect other aspects of your life. Stop thinking about when the time is going to come, it will when it needs to and it will be so much better because you weren't looking desperately for it. That's also when it really lasts.
It is kind of a primal instinct. Muscular guys (at one time in life) meant a greater ability to survive and a greater ability to protect the female and the children that they produced. There is also social media. I mean, you never watch a steamy Hollywood sex scene where there is an old couple, or and ugly couple in bed.
It does exist however, but you are right, girls are predisposed to choose the better- looking ones. It might take some time to find a girl that is willing to give you a chance, but if you just give up on them completely, it's never going to help you. Also, what if she comes along and she is pretty and you scare her off because your head is so wrapped around the view that pretty girls only give chances to pretty boys, huh?
Same could be said for you men who only think women should look how they do in magazines. We all have flaws and that is just photoshop, and not all of us are size 2's. I have never once dated a supermodel type guy because a kick ass personality outweighs looks in my opinion. Sure my bf has to be attractive to me but he also has to have a great personality. I won't date hot duds. Been there done that.
Everyone finds different people good looking, so there's no such thing as a standard "good looking" person. Some girls would find the guys that most would claim "ugly" as good looking. We all have different tastes and we are all attracted to different people. All people are good looking in a different set of eyes. I may not find someone good looking, but someone else may find that person good looking. Just like how not all guys date the super model look, not all girls do.
not true dude... only superficial freaks will look for those "super model looking guys"
The funny thing is that if I did date a "model" type I'd be so freaked out by his feminism. Every guy who fell into this category almost always was not very masculine. Now put a masculine cowboy type guy infront of me and it is all over :D
honestly the only thing that makes a guy unattractive to me is his attitude i mean you could say my boyfriends a ugly turd but i love him even though he looks like a white Asian guy with his super military haircut he is perfect there is no such thing as a ugly guy some people are just very shallow honestly i think that guys tend to only ant super model girls they have so many expectations big butt big boobs pretty face nic personality tall like what i just dont want someone to beat on me lol imagine this you are in an online relationship a guys biggest fear is she's fat a girls biggest fear he is a perverted rapist come on
That's not true for me.
I do not want guys that look like models
Male models are most likely into their looks way too much
They take care if theirselves excessively
I do not want a man who acts like a girl
I want a man who gets dirty outside
That is not true for all, or even most girls. We all have certain features that we find most physically attractive. And when you have a great personality, your physical appearance changes.
I am going to like a guy who i find physically attractive.
Not what the fashion industry or population if america does.
If he physically appeals to me and has the personality to match i will like him.
Super models are rare and their standard is out of the question because they are so far out of my league
This is false. You are just bitter that you haven't got yourself a girl and now you are blaming us and making excuses
I don't think that this is completely true. Yes looks play a part as it is nice to have a guy who is nice to look at. However, for long term relationships, personality and compatibility is much more important
Oh shut the Hell up.
It doesn't matter how ugly you are, if you are successful in your hobbies and job (which means you're ambitious, dedicated and a hard-worker) you can find a woman who will love you.
The problem is too many ugly guys sit loathing in self-pity and are losers, instead of going out and doing something that matters. You do something that matters, and you'll matter to women.
Well, let's be honest. First, yes, girls are into looks more than they say. Period. Second, though, they're not only wanting super-model looking guys. Like guys, they want someone at least in their league. Us guys are more into raw, natural looks -- and girls are more into the taller, more fashionable (even rugged for some) ones. Girls looking to settle down are less into looks, as you can make up for it by having sense of security & comfort. But looks gets you in the door.
Now, with that said -- you're upset because you're wanting women who are out of your league -- thus, they're wanting guys who are above your league as well. It's a double-standard. You CAN get girls in your league -- whatever that league level is -- but you're upset because you can't get a girl outside your league. If you actually are an ugly guy, you're just as guilty not wanting Ugly Jane. So no sympathy for you.
Yes you can get Ugly Jane. If you have tried & failed countless times, it's not your looks that's the (only) problem. It's your style, your swagger, your persona, and your attitude that's tuning All the ladies off. There are PLENTY of even pretty girls out with guys who are NOT models, let alone super models.
You have to change your outlook, change your game -- change your self-esteem. It will change your vision. Work out, get in shape -- don't focus on girls directly at all -- get yourself back into the swing of things. If you're not hugely obese, in 6 months, that along with reading up on motivational books + ones about getting girls that have more substance than PUA material -- you'll be in gear. But it takes passion & dedication to do that. Most people don't end up going that route.
This is totally not true. Women like men who are confident in themselves, and there are plenty of conventionally "ugly" men who still have that confidence. You just have to work on yourself. Focus on your strengths, things you are good at, and be proud of yourself.
they seriously do? I thought they just wanted a "Man". hahaa
Im average looking but every gf I have had has been way out of my league. I've never had a gf less than an 8 in my opinion. Even a couple 10's mixed in. Its not totally true. Of course some girls are very shallow as well as many guys are too.
I don't know about that, I've seen guys who aren't the best looking with beautiful girls, even guys who are like that who aren't rich. You'd be surprised, matter a fact I'm seeing more guys who people would consider average-below by social standards, in relationships with the most beautiful women. The guys who look like models do get beautiful women (hooking up anyway), but relationship wise same phenomena.
And why do we want super attractive women? Simple we all want someone we are attracted to looks wise. Or are you not the same? Sucks but thats how things are. If you're ugly than work on improving on other things or try and better your looks sometimes a simple change of hair style can do a lot.
I think you are wrong. Maybe some, but I often find myself surprised both at seeing who an attractive girl is with and the interest some show in me.
Put up a picture and the forum may help you rectify the problem.
Though from what I read, it appears you are either trolling or have a really low self confidence. If you keep this up, you will have trouble developing any kind of a relationship in your life.
If you are really unattractive, start working out and get ripped. That is the easiest way to turn things around.
Learn to talk properly, don't grovel like you are doing on the forum. Stop oging women if you do that.
So what? Nothing wrong with wanting an attractive guy... sounds like somebody is a bit envious :P
And besides, most guys want a super-model looking girl, too.
Cuz they wanna fawk wif da hawties ofcourse!
some girls are shallow, and i thought its personality what girls go for?
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