Okay So Today Me & My Bf Were Talking And He Was Talking About How The First Two Times We Kissed He Wasn't Even Trying So I Jokingly Said "You're A LIAR LOL!" & He Put Something That I Think NO Girl Should He From Their Boyfriend. . . He Said " How Are You Going To Tell Me? There's Only Been One Time Where I Was Like... Damn She Can Make Out! & I'm Sorry To Say.. It wasn't with you :'( "
That really upset me because lately he's been putting me down and talking about how every other girl can please him & I can't or how I can't kiss but his exes can or how I'm bad at giving hickeys and stuff like that.
I don't know If I'm Over Exaggerating Or What But Do I Have A Right To Be Upset That He Said This?
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When my husband and I started dating he was very upfront with me and told me he had been with a lot of other women. Being that he was military one can imagine what a lot was. However when we started dating and being sexual he asked me once if I wanted him to tell me what all these other women did that pleased him. I looked at him and told him 'NO'. That if he wanted me to know something that he liked he can teach me but I was not competing with ghost girlfriends from his past. I did not want to be compared to them and whatever it was he wanted me to do he could show me or teach me.
If this boyfriend of yours is treating you like this it seems to me that he might be purposely trying to push you away because he is to much of a coward to break it off with you himself. Let him know that you will not compete with other past relationships and if he wants you to be better at making out or whatever then he can teach you himself and if he is not secure enough in his manhood to do that and take control of your relationship there are plenty other real men out there that can and will treat you the way a lady should be treated.1