Hello, I am a guy thats been a lot of dates but the first date is usually both the first and the last. I've been on so many my friends think that I am a player, but what I really want is a relationship. I am a naturally quiet guy and I feel as though I come off as boring, and I think this is why I hardly get a second chance.
I don't have much experience talking with girls because I basically went through a "makeover" during my junior year in high school. And now that I can actually get the dates, I can't seem to close in.
How should I act? Talk about what? Make her laugh? How do I get her to want a second date?
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Well ask her about what she doing in life like her work or if she at school. To me it the frist date so there so many things to ask because you dont know much. Talk about things you like make some jokes feel it out with where the bondary tho and what she may like more of keep it light and fun try not to get serious topics unless she brings it up and if your ok with talking about it. Ask about if she likes movies or something it the way to see if your both on the same page and want the same thing sometimes you go tho many people before you get the right girl. You want it to click. Just express your self! Let them see who you are.0