I'm having a tough time. I am friends with this guy who I've had feelings for a while. We're great friends and I've been pretty obvious about how I feel about him but he is either too shy (like me) to make a move, or he just simply doesn't feel the same way. Also, whenever I tell him I like him he responds with "yeah right" (Fustrating!) I don't know if it is a confidence issue or if he just isn't in the same boat I am... We go weeks talking every day and then we'll go a week or two with out a word.
So what? string me along until something better (yeah right) comes along? or eventually get the balls to tell her and put her out of her misery? Maybe I need to grow the balls, HELP
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This could actually be the opposite of what you're thinking. I've been in somewhat of a situation like this before, and never really knew that girl actually liked me as such.
A female friend, and I had been hanging out two summers ago quite a bit. We would have dinner, stay up late talking, but nothing physical ever happened. She would tease with jokes, and laugh in a flirtatious way, but I never asked her if she actually liked me. I had let it go in my head, and if she did and voiced it thoroughly. Then I would respond to it, but sometimes it's not about telling you that he's not interested, or not having the balls to tell you. He may just be oblivious to it all. You should just be straight forward with him, or just ask him out on an actual date. Otherwise, you'll just be assuming for quite some time.1