I had a seriously bad relationship when I was 13. I was dating an older guy, about high school junior or senior age, with my parents not knowing. One day we were home alone at my house and he took advantage of me sexually. After that he broke up with me and I started to cut, because A) u didn't want to tell my parents what happened and B) I felt disgusted in myself and what I let happen. This went on til about the middle of my sophomore year of high school when my friend convinced me to stop. However the depression came back again towards the end if my junior year and I started cutting again. I have told my boyfriend all the previous information however I did it again tonight. I am seeing him tomorrow and I don't know if I should tell him I relapsed again. I don't want him to see me as a depressed, suicidal freak, but I feel that if I don't I'm not being completely honest with him. What do I do?
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Far more important than you telling your boyfriend that you cut yourself is the question what are you doing to get past these feelings that make you want to cut.
If I loved a woman who hurt herself, I would want her to do everything in her power to stop that, including getting some psychological support. If your boyfriend is a good guy, he would want you to get help my dear.
I really hope that you do. You take care now.0
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