So I have a hard time with men. Stupidly I go for the
Ones who make the least effort and then wonder why it is not 50)50 further down the line. As it never was from get go. Whether it be guys online or guys I meet face to face in life. I think face to face is always more real.
While online for past few months been talking to a guy still have not met he plays the busy card and I got fed up now we barely talk. He is 27 so I figured yeah he would make good bf. Quite the opposite he would make a rubbish bf and I am glad we never met. As I know enough to put me off him for good.
During this year and mid summer. I kept going to a store local to me. This guy would act fidgety, smile, compliment me, ask me how I am etc. I just put hin same boat as all guys assuming he would not want to date as most want fun. I could be wrong though an I think he deserves a chance. As he will be in convo with people and when I am there he stops and says dont care what you lot say now princess is here. He makes me feel special before I have even got to know him. He makes me feel like the most beautiful girl in the world. If I am down he notices and wants to know why. He shows care towards me and asks about my life. I have feelings there for him as I am so nervous when I see him and he changes too.
Been few weeks since I've saw him so I dont know if. He will miss me or not but what can I do to get things moving if he does still seem keen on me? When I see him he's always working behind counter. he's so handsome and does not even know it which makes him more admirable. Every girl wants to feek special and I know now I have been going after boys not real men. Could kick myself for the bad choices I have made. I hope to rectify them now though. he's even gone to hold my hand and I did not push him away and in that moment I felt like weconnected. When I next see him what do I say?
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Be honest and explain him your situation. As you've written, he's quite good at catching your mood and thoughts, so I'm sure he'll understand you. Give him a chance. Even if guys just go for sex and don't want a relationship, it's nothing you should blame them for. Just different needs. But he sounds cute as from what you said, and I'd give it a try.
Explain to him how important it is to you that he keeps doing stuff for you and the relationship, and not just think "I got her" and relax. He should at no point take you for granted.1