I've been dating this guy for 3 months, and we are just trying to get to know each other and potentially get married in the end. No sex involved. What confuses me is that I can get through him. He's told me that he likes my company and being around me.
Everytime I try to flirt, he just takes it seriously. He doesn't flirt back and I feel stupid for trying. Every time he compliments me, it's like "you are nice". In person he laughs at my jokes and he seems to enjoy himself and it's like his life consists of routines. I personally think he seems kinda mechanical in his way of acting. I'm not judging him at all, I just want to hear you out? Is there something I'm missing personalitywise?
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Sounds like that movie with Babs Streisand and Jeff Bridges... He was all business, No pleasure, and when She finally Changed her outlook, her Look, her school marm manner into this sexy image of what he had Now her as His wife, he----Fell head over heels in love with her, dropping the dope act, and put his heart that had been on his sleeve, into her hands... Beautiful love story...
Perhaps what he is feeling Right now, is more like comfy companionship. Maybe he has a guard up, from a past burnt relationship, and doesn't want anything 'Too Personal' right now. He is just getting to know you, and with some couples, it sometimes takes time And---Two to tangle---to find the magic, chemistry. And you Could change a bit of spice for his life... Perhaps it would give him some awakening that he desperately needs.
However, Old Mother Nature doesn't always have the seeds needed to sow in order to be Reaped. And if you do find in time, that Nothing is happening, exhausting it all, you can always take another direction that you may find with someone else's----Personaltywise.
Good luck. xx0