I am rather quiet. it takes me time to warm up to people and especially on first dates I get so nervous n dnt always know what to talk about. even on the phone I get nervous sometimes. im more my self when im texting a guy. im not worried about saying the wrong thing. the guys who have stuck around past the first few dates know that im actually really funny n have a lot to say. but most are put off by the fact that im so quiet on the first few dates. what do u think?
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Shyness isn't a big deal, I dealt with that a lot (and I'm still dealing with it), it's more a matter of confidence once we get to know each other.
Although, on the first few dates, if she doesn't talk much and looks uncomfortable, I might misinterpret that as her being uninterested, so be careful of that. Smiling (not giant grins, just a slight smile that keeps your mouth from drooping into something that looks like a frown) is always a good thing and makes you seem approachable and likable without even having to say anything, so try that.2