I'm in a wheelchair and I've always got pretty close with girls but as soon as I try to move onto dating, I get rejected.
Many of my male friends seem to think this is because of being in a wheelchair. I mean I can see the logic. I can't do things girls would want with a guy, such as dancing. I can't go to all places as some don't have disabled access and it's hard to get there as the only car I can travel in is my personal one.
Also it's hard to get into girls houses as most have steps up to the door and if they ever came to it, sex would be possible, albeit it would not be as easy as it would for an able-bodied person.
This array of problems has led me to think I'll never be able to get a girlfriend due to these problems. I'm just wondering, honestly, I can accept an honest answer, whether you girls think you could ever realistically date a guy in a wheelchair? Please be honest, I really appreciate it.
- Yes, I would90% (18)67% (2)87% (20)Vote
- No, I wouldn't10% (2)33% (1)13% (3)Vote
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I honestly would, but I feel the reason you might get rejected is they wouldn't know how to act around you. Maybe they don't want to accidentally offend you or do something wrong. But regarding your "restrictions:" I find them to be manageable you guys can meet up at places where there is wheelchair access. If they really do like you they'll put in the effort.1