There is a guy that I really like. We've been talking for almost a month now. I would love to have more with him. I would love to be in a relationship with him one day. I want him to be mine. From what I know about him so far he has everything I need and want in a man. Since the first day i met him i just had a gut feeling that he could be something good for me. I don't know what he wants though. I don't know if he wants just sex or if he wants more. I was thinking about asking him directly and straightforward what he wants with me, just sex or more. Does he want a friend with benefits or does he want to build something for the long run.. Would that turn him off or turn him away if I'm that direct and straight forward?
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I say chill out. Make it known that you like spending time with him and hint at things in the future. Not like when we get married but things like hey that movie looks cool we'll have to watch it together one day. Keep it subtle. Remember you already have what you want. You're sitting in the presence of someone you enjoy so just enjoy it and don't worry to much about the future. If you two like each other the conversation will happen when you're both ready. Don't rush just enjoy and build a relationship with dude.0