I'm a man. What i've noticed from dating sites is women in their 30s have careers, many times they already are married and in relationships, even with kids. Not just dating sites but real life. I've also seen or read or heard what women want in guys. They want social, confident, outgoing and talkative men. All of the women in dating shows in tv, in dating sites, in dating articles online, and in dating books, and from what i've seen in real life, all the women want that.
i've never even had a date ever. Moreover i'm mentally disabled from brain damage ( i can write but i can't speak or think fast in real life) I can't walk very much either. I don't have a career and that means i'm pretty much a loser in Women's minds.
from 30s to 60s is not much time left and typically Americans die at 60 especially people that have genetic problems with the heart and so on. And i have that too. So, i have about less than 30 years if i ever am to find love. Doesn't seem very likely that i have enough time left to find love.
what do you think?
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Chill the fuck out man, stop being so melodramatic. Some people stay single for their entire lives - a great uncle of mine who recently passed away, and another uncle on a different side of the family, for two - and they are incredibly happy. They've remained single because they wanted to, because they find peace in solitude. For everyone else? There's somebody out there that they are fated to be with. We all have our other half, our penguin. Read Plato's Symposium - even he believes in soul mates (or at least tells us that Aristophanes does), and I think we can all agree he was a pretty smart guy.
Any girl who turns you down does so because they are not the right woman for you, OK? Thirty years is a very long time. Think of all the memories and moments you had in the last thirty years. You have that many more to find the woman of your dreams and hold her. And you should know - it is false to say that most Americans die at 60. The average life expectancy of an American male is 78.7 years.
Chin up, man. If you want to have more dates, be kind, be compassionate, and treat women like you want to be their friend. And you should also treat yourself like a friend, man. Stop calling yourself a loser, because you aren't one. Look around you, and try to find the woman who's actually right for you.0