I understand love, but I don't understand the love that people allow themselves to get hurt constantly, like the guy or girl cheating, or doing immature things, and even going out behind their back to clubs, etc.
Like is that really love. I never been in love but I know that's not love, love is simply love, sure their will be issues but not ones that make you cry almost always or fight constantly.
For example one of my guy friends, is in a long distance Miami and the woman is in Venezuela. He visits her once every couple of months.
But she goes out behind his back and he finds out she does this constantly. When she got mad at him she damaged the stuff he got her. She gets mad when she doesn't get what she wants. Like clothes or things for her hair. She's mad he works a lot but he's doing that to bring her down. She argues with him about little things everyday.
Like I don't understand, why?
Why put up with that crap.
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The brain is a powerful thing, and it can go to great length to rationalize things in order to justify its decisions.
It tries to protect you, sometimes in ironic ways. Like protecting you from the feeling of failure as opposed to allowing you to let things go and move on.0