Why are there so few girls with these qualities:
-Doesn't wait for the guy to be the one to initiate physical affection (initiating kissing, initiating hugging, initiating cuddling etc…)
-Doesn't expect the guy to do absolutely everything (planning dates, calling, texting first instead of waiting for the guy to text
-Doesn't wait for the guy to be the one to say "I love you." Doesn't only say "i love you too" she actually tells him she loves him.
-Actually takes initiative
They say they do these things because it makes them feel wanted when the guy initiates everything. But then they make the guy feel unwanted because of their selfishness because they never show affection to their boyfriends and they never show that they actually want to be with their boyfriends.
Is there such a thing as a girl who has these qualities or am I stuck dating selfish women who only think about what they can get from their boyfriend rather than what they can do for their boyfriends
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Oh this one is actually what I've asked a lot of my family members, my brother, my friends, basically everyone. I'm a girl obviously, and also ask myself why a guy should be first at this and that, and truthfully I hate it when girls say that the guy should do things first. Honestly if someone likes someone they need to show it bc for the other person it's gonna come off as friendly and leave them confused as they are bc some can't tell the difference. My ex best friend used to tell me "I want to meet a guy when he's rude, that way I know that side and the fake side is the nice side." I would always look at her as if she fell on her head because basically she wants a guy to treat her like trash. Which I found out that she's the one that treats guys like that. She always said "guys should text first" and whatnot. I don't get it though, maybe I spend far too much with my own guy friends or idk, but I'm always telling girls that they shouldn't wait for a guy to text them first, or to be the second to do things for the guy. I know girls want the guy to 'man up' and say it or do it all first, but sometimes the guy is too shy or doesn't want to even have or get those feelings so they just leave it as it is.0