I went on a first date four days ago with a lovely girl but it was a hot day/I was nervous. I could not stop sweating :( my forehead was particularly bad. We left each other on good terms and she initiated a hug. I thought all was well but I have text her twice. Once after the date to say it was lovely to be able to spend time with her and another (Yesterday) asking her out tomorrow and have had no response. Did I do something wrong?
- Not a problemVote A
- Complete turn offVote B
Most Helpful Girl
No, you haven't done anything wrong. She just sounds like she might not be interested. BUT, I don't think that's because you did something wrong. I'm certain she doesn't know you well enough to even be able to form a legitimate opinion- which means there's honestly nothing you could've done. The chemistry just probably wasn't there for her, and that's nothing you could have controlled nor changed, so there's no reason whatsoever to fault yourself. From this point forward, I would not text her again. I would just leave it be for a while. The more persistent you are, the less receptive she will be. And lastly, if the sweating was a deal breaker for her, then you dodged a bullet. If someone is going to put so much stock into the fact that someone is sweating that they'd let that actually away their opinion of you, then consider yourself lucky that things aren't working out. Because if sweating bothers someone that much, how in the world would they react to genuine flaws? Not well. I think you should move on and not waste your time or energy on this girl anymore.2