So my best friend is the greatest person I know. Been there for me through all my stupid exes. Does so much for me its unbelievable. I've noticed we've started getting touchy with each other and we both don't seem to mind. He also, after me sucking it up and asking, admitted he does have feelings for me. The thing is.. he's kind of an awkward guy. I don't want to be rude of course or disrespectful, but its cute sometimes however I wonder if it would affect our relationship?
Should I go for him despite this? Its been on my mind a lot
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As you have Probably heard throughout your life, Or Haven't: There is nothing in life that's a guarantee but death and taxes. And a relationship, whether it has First Formed from Friendship or just off the street is-----Not One hundred percent as well.
Being you both have such a wonderful repore of a relationship, the kind of Chemistry Anyone IN a relationship right now would surely Envy, then of course Anything that 'Isn't broken, not needing to be fixed' is a gamble, Possibly a gain. One never will Know unless One never tries.
Sit down with your 'Soul mate' and have a long serious talk about Everything that needs to be hashed over here: His feelings, Your feelings, and just Anything that Spells 'Pros and cons.' And with All of this Mature Matter at hand, I would say it wouldn't be "rude of course or disrespectful,' for with this beautiful, magical Friendship that you both have, Open lines of communication, Caring And Compromise are the perfect ingredients you Already Have to Nurture and Nurse What could Be more to come.
And if you both would decide that it's best to just leave well enough alone And hands Alone, then it would be just one of those things that you could 'Suck Up And---Chalk up---As being what you felt Better to do, so Nothing Ever comes between the Two of you and no one ends up feeling------Awkward.
Good luck. xx0