So I was hanging out with this guy I USED TO like. We started talking about relationships, randomly, and he started talking about his usual type. He literally went on and on about how he loves blues eyes and girls. I have dark brown ones. He went on about how I'm the "prettiest black girl he knows. " And how he would date me because I don't act like a stereotype. I just ignored him and started talking about something else.
I do think his interest is/was genuine because of how's he has acted towards me over the last few years. However, that had really just turned me off.
Why do people mention stuff like when trying to or while dating someone? I met other guys like this. They might not have had a racial type , but theirs were breast size, height, etc.
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Everyone has a "type" they are inexplicably attracted to. If someone says you aren't they're usual type, but would date you anyways, it's probably because you have shown them something about you that piques their curiosity about you.
My type is brunettes with glasses. However, I have dated women who were blonde, or didn't have glasses, and enjoyed myself simply because they were able to show me up front they were intriguing possibilities for me, because they were pretty, or had a great personality, or amused me, or had similar interests.1