Like rent, phone, car, cable, etc? I don't understand it at all. Especially since I'm not struggling. It would make me feel really weird and uncomfortable to accept that. I just can't agree to it. Even if he says he wants to take care of me and all that, I'm not a child. I've been fine on my own for years, and we've only been dating for like 6 months. What do you think of this? Am I missing something?
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Don't accept it and for you that you felt the way you did. The man could be genuinely kind, but it's never ever free, it's never free. I'll repeat one more time: It's never ever free. You don't want yourself to be at anyone's debt, especially when you'll feel compunction when you cannot give them anything in return, or it turns out you end up being used as a result.1