If you want to say confidence , please turn away and dont answer , because that word almost made me commit suicide .
and please dont give common sense answers (hygiene , clothes , gym , etc..) because i do all those
and funny/personality. My problem with that is no girl lets me talk to her enough to show any personality :/ and im not naturally funny until i get some time to know someone then starts showing
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Become their friend. The first goal of getting a date is getting her attention. You don't think you look good, but you said you have a great personality, so you're going to need a strategy to get her to notice you. If you become her friend or alley, you'll be more likely for her to start to pay attention to you.
You also need something mutual that connects you both. Maybe it's video games, sports, food, art. It can be anything, but there has to be something. If you can't connect, it probably won't work.
Be careful you don't fall into the "friend zone". I put that in quotes because the "friend zone" is not when people are just friends, it's when there is an imbalance in the relationship-one person is just using the other. Also, be prepared that she might reject you. Part of finding a relationship is unfortunately being turned down. You also need to be honest with what you want.
A lot of my experience of getting in a relationship right away is the guy only wants a physical relationship and I'm not okay with that. That being said, I've never been in a relationship because I turn those guys down.
To summarize-1. Get her attention 2. Find a connection 3. Don't be "friends zoned" 4. Be honest with what you want.0