So I met this guy on Tinder and it seemed like we got along great. He asked me out for a drink the next day but unfortunately I had to wait until the weekend due to prior commitments and work. He would text me every morning and we would basically spent the entire day talking. He would tell me how excited he was for our date, how adorable and fun to talk to I was, and he would even make suggestions for future dates and thing we could do. Our date finally rolled around and we had a really fun time. He was quite touchy feely when we were making out, and sometimes we would just sit and cuddle throughout the night. At the end of the night he asked if we were going back to my place, and he said just because we go there doesn't mean we have to have sex. I tried really hard to resist him but he came on very strongly and against my better judgement we did end up sleeping together. He slept over and we cuddled all night. The next day he left, and as we were saying goodbye there was no "I'll see you soon" or any attempt to make future plans. He also hasn't texted me. Was he basically just sweet talking me to get laid?
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@"Was he basically just sweet talking me to get laid?"
Surely you find this out by talking to him a bit more, maybe going on another date.
Women seem to be always trying to "read the tea leaves" after something like a first date or first sex. Instead of trying to divine knowledge out of thin air, why not just speak to the guy a bit more, try another date... I'll never understand this.
It sounds to me like he actually liked you. That he wanted to sleep with you is just a given as he's a guy, it doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't also actually 'like' like you. His non-response could be as simple as trying to navigate society's BS little "rules" that you're not supposed to text too quickly or whatever.
Sorry, don't mean to sound critical, I'm just speaking generally.0