It may come to a surprise to most women, but very attractive girls are usually not asked out and they remain single for a very long time. This is a common complaint among supermodels. In reality, average and above-average looking girls are asked out a lot more than supermodel types.
When an average guy sees a supermodel, obviously she's attractive. But the average dude knows she is too pretty for him. We expect a supermodel to date Fabio or Brad Pitt. Not us. So we may gawk and stare at her from the other side of the room, but we never actually ask her for her number. The pretty girl standing beside the supermodel seems much more attainable and down-to-earth. Consequently, we walk towards both girls but end up talking to the pretty-average one.
Not only that, many guys will fear having to fend off other supermodel-type men from their supermodel girlfriend for their entire life. So it's more hassle than anything else.
However, the fact is, a model is no less of a human being than anyone else. She will want the affection and love of a guy. Like other women, she probably finds confidence and humor very attractive in a man. She probably does not make her dating decisions purely on physical attractiveness. If the average looking guy actually came up to her, showed some confidence and made her laugh, chances are she would fall in love with him. But most men won't have the balls to go up and ask the model.
We create this image of a model that we place so high on a pedestal inside our minds that we can't reach her.
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Many guys can assume that a "model" will be hit on so much that it would make it hard for her to stay faithful. So if he feels that you'll be hit on constantly he may avoid you. Plus, models can be very self absorbed so he may assume that everything is about how you look and how you feel and that potential narcissism may turn him off.
Many guys are turned off by girls who wear so much makeup. If a girl's putting in that much effort into her appearance it can easily mean that she wants to attract people to her that much and that she has no concept of natural beauty.
Many guys would kill each other for a Chance to date a model. That guy probably had a bad experience with a pretty girl/women and now he is jaded. As for why you haven't been asked out, you probably intimidate then. A lot of guys find it hard to approach women, let alone a gorgeous one. What about dating another model? They would have better insight as to what your life is like. As for that guy, forget him. You are better off.
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I would say that the guy is pretty much just a dumbass that doesn't know what he is talking about. I have had plenty of female friends who were models, and dated a few myself. Just because a girl models does not make her any less intelligent or awesome or anything, and I know a lot of girls that modeled who had amazing personalities and were great people. Not to mention the fact that almost any guy would kill to date a model, the guy you liked was just misinformed and probably thought he couldn't get a model so he chose to bash them. Don't worry about him, most guys would love to date a model, especially one that seems as sweet as you!
cause models don't have good personalities all the time. i dated a model and she gave me a really terrible kiss and played way too many games, and was just overall difficult. most guys know models have obnoxious personalities so they just expect that.
I can see, in some ways, why he would say this. I think a lot of models come off a stuck up bitches, most guys don't want to have anything to do with women who act like that. Secondly, if I as a guy was dating a model, I would always wonder why she was with me. I don't consider myself very attractive and would worry about her running off with another guy that was more attractive than me.
cuz all they do is model. Yes... most are very attractive... but looks are only a part of what makes a good girl friend. Personality, sex, and how she acts as a girlfriend are other factors that make a good girlfriend. If i liked a model and she had a bad personality i would not date her.
it could be that female models and celebrities are too busy to be a girlfriend, guys want to be with a girl not be stressed into wanting to be with someone whos never there with him
never heard model material not being girlfriend material. who doesn't like models?
Most entertainers aren't relationship material because they're around so much temptation that it's hard to stay faithful
Models tend to put up a front... to protect themselves from jerks... when really the guy is a good guy, so, he probably writes you off as fake because you put up a front. Just be yourself, don't "protect" yourself
Bit of a quick BA, isn't it?Cuz models tend to care more about their looks than the actual relationship.
Woa. You must be kidding me :/. You dont have a bf?
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