i have a crush on someone and he's a year older than me :p i've been talking to him a lot and he had/ has a crush on someone else and i don't know if he likes me :p but everytime i see him in person my heart starts going faster and i think i'm going to faint :p and i keep dreaming of him :s i'm to shy to say something to him about it :D don't realy know how i should do it?
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Considering you talk to him a lot, ask him if you can talk to him in a private place. I have no idea how old you are or what grade you two are in, so bare with me. Maybe ask to talk to him at a quiet place at recess, or during a break at school. Maybe meet up after school for a bit so you can ask him. Possibly meet up with him for some kind of fun (beach trip, movie, bowling, arcade, etc.) and ask him after that.
As for words, I'm personally on the "point-blank" side, so I don't know if you would benefit from any of my suggestions on how to phrase things, but here it goes. Try something to the tune of "Can I ask you something? I'm a bit nervous to ask you this, but I've had a crush on you for a bit and I wanted to know if you felt the same or maybe would give me a chance?" or "I'm kind of shy asking, but I like you as more than a friend. Do you feel the same?". If it works, congratulations, you just took the pressure off of him in making the first move! If not, you have given him a pretty high compliment and you two can still be friends afterwards.
Good luck with it!1