Ok I met this guy who is 25 through my friend. And remember I'm 19. It just started off like hey let's just hang out than he made the first move on like the second night of seeing each other and every since than we have been seeing each other kinda often. I asked him about the difference and he said it just sucks that I can't go out and do the same things as him. But I'm starting to think that he is feeling more and I'm not sure if wants to feel it or not. But is that a good or bad thing. I mean there is like 5-6 years difference between us? Now I always dated older guys but not this old but I think of it as it's just a number and if there are feelings there then its ok and go for it
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You are right for the most part. Age is just a number, maturity is another thing. I've met 18 year old gals that were on par maturity wise with 40 year olds. We are all different in this category.
Dating someone who is 6 years older isn't really a major deal. Yea, you can't go drinking with him (legally anyways) or go to most clubs. So what? There are billions of other activities you can partake in. In my experience dating older can be a blast. I have dated numerous women who are older, almost 20 years my senior. It boils down to character compatibility. Your persona might just click well with older men. Nothing new there honestly.
If you like the guy and he likes you. Then who cares. You are an adult and free to make your own decisions. If the relationship makes you happy then go for it.0