well, my relationship is so hard and stressful..
we keep on breaking up then getting back.. we're both tired of it but we want to be together.. he said lets be friends ,,, two weeks later he started texting me.. now we met and he wanted us to get back, and he tried to have sex but i didn't let him, it was hard for me cause i've been missing him and sex. sex always been a way for me to forget about the s*it he does most of the time " for a while" but i wanted to make him realize my worth so I said no for sex.
do you think if i kept with the " NO FOR SEX" would he start to change the way i want him to?
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Dude's only gonna change if he genuinely wants to, and my guess is that the repeated breakups are a sure sign that you guys just shouldn't be together anyways.
As for using sex to teach a lesson, I think it degrades the act to use sex as a bargaining chip like that. But I also understand (and applaud) you not having sex with him simply because you weren't feeling it.1